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# Summary

Instead of landing global builder changes; pytorch/builder#1878

This PR targets only the Rowwise file and adds the sm90a featurs.

Verified locally by setting:
```
TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST=9.0
```

We can see in the build.ninja file that the proper flags are set:

```
build caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_cuda.dir/__/aten/src/ATen/native/cuda/RowwiseScaledMM.cu.o: CUDA_COMPILER__torch_cuda_unscanned_Release /home/drisspg/meta/pytorch/aten/src/ATen/native/cuda/RowwiseScaledMM.cu || cmake_object_order_depends_target_torch_cuda
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  OBJECT_DIR = caffe2/CMakeFiles/torch_cuda.dir
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 ```

Pull Request resolved: #129402
Approved by: https://github.com/malfet